tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post8169435702991739388..comments2024-02-06T08:43:35.333+01:00Comments on Sea Legs Girl: I never expected to have to write thissea legs girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14782712411873234071noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-25461774894838299932010-08-01T20:06:41.456+02:002010-08-01T20:06:41.456+02:00SLG, our thoughts are with your family. Such devas...SLG, our thoughts are with your family. Such devastating news. Take good care of yourself.cldevallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11901713837423216628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-57169160382849578272010-08-01T07:34:55.269+02:002010-08-01T07:34:55.269+02:00I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I wen...I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I went through a similar experience earlier this year... Miscarried the day after a bike ride and of course I wondered if the bike ride did it but (according to my hcg numbrs) it had stopped growing weeks prior so that helped alleviate some of the guilt. Life goes on, but you don't forget. Miscarriages suck.Michelle Simmonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10301323188060167291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-25755892524278628622010-07-31T15:45:29.856+02:002010-07-31T15:45:29.856+02:00Kæreste Tracy.
Det gør mig meget ked af det at læ...Kæreste Tracy.<br /><br />Det gør mig meget ked af det at læse din blog idag. Jeg føler med jer begge og ord er for fattige. I er i mine dybeste tanker og jeg glæder mig til at se og tale med dig.<br /><br />Mange tanker og kærlige hilsener<br /><br />HenrietteAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-54628179205304894332010-07-31T03:36:56.036+02:002010-07-31T03:36:56.036+02:00very sorry for your loss. you are doing a service...very sorry for your loss. you are doing a service to others to share your pain openly. miscarriage is a subject all to shrouded in secrecy and mystery, which makes the pain all the harder to bear, I'm sure.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06582340182176367822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-30928758847478239182010-07-30T06:02:44.828+02:002010-07-30T06:02:44.828+02:00So sorry for the loss of your little one. My heart...So sorry for the loss of your little one. My heart goes out to your family today.<br /><br />My best.Joy Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18419980158057378475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-50593515524603139082010-07-30T03:21:56.816+02:002010-07-30T03:21:56.816+02:00I am sorry to hear this and glad you have your fam...I am sorry to hear this and glad you have your family near you. Big hug to you and SR.mmmonykahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09703551248084847150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-348519434191143012010-07-30T03:21:00.865+02:002010-07-30T03:21:00.865+02:00SLG... I'm so sorry for your loss. I read you...SLG... I'm so sorry for your loss. I read your blog only occasionally, and I disagree with you a lot - but a miscarriage is a terrible thing to go through and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. <br /><br />I lost a baby last year late in the 2nd trimester and was absolutely devastated. Give yourself time to heal emotionally as well as physically, don't underestimate the toll this can take on you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-20381684891768392952010-07-30T02:01:23.233+02:002010-07-30T02:01:23.233+02:00So sorry for your loss. When I became pregnant th...So sorry for your loss. When I became pregnant that 1 in 3 pregnancies don't make it stat was constantly on my mind. When you stop and think about it, a healthy baby really is a miracle. Best wishes on your road to healing.cleahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01834964537073041686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-38048802521359876512010-07-29T19:16:38.999+02:002010-07-29T19:16:38.999+02:00I'm sorry to hear this. At least you know the...I'm sorry to hear this. At least you know the run had nothing to do with it - I had a similar experience a few months ago, and had a miscarriage a few days after an 18 hour adventure race. They did not determine when the fetus died, and even knowing the facts, it is hard not to blame the race. I am 6 weeks pregnant again, and chose to not race a 50 miler last weekend. The doctors insist that I need to reduce my mileage by 50% at least for the first trimester - I'm not sure about that! Anyway, the whole process is devastating, but you will come through it. You are not alone - lots of us have gone through this! Keep on running (and run some miles for me!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-35092133173003975102010-07-29T14:49:28.304+02:002010-07-29T14:49:28.304+02:00These comments are so thoughtful and so meaningful...These comments are so thoughtful and so meaningful to us. I am so glad I was able to write about the experience here and receive such wonderful support. <br /><br />As those of you know who have been through it, there are moments I forget about it and moments I still get down on myself, but we both know we'll get through this fine and that there are many wonderful things in life to come.<br /><br />Thank you so much to everyone for taking the time to write.sea legs girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14782712411873234071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-61238638823867431782010-07-29T08:46:10.856+02:002010-07-29T08:46:10.856+02:00I'm really sorry that you have to go through a...I'm really sorry that you have to go through all these emotions and all the stress about blaming your self.<br /><br />Hopefully you will realize that it was better that it happened now and not when you were 6 months pregnant or having a baby with some birth deficiancy.<br /><br />Keep going and I wish for you to see some blue lines when you are ready for it!Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14000695114298710579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-16733921171444221702010-07-29T04:10:33.461+02:002010-07-29T04:10:33.461+02:00SLG, so sorry to read this news. It's great, t...SLG, so sorry to read this news. It's great, though, that you are open to writing about your experiences with it, b/c it's something that few women (or men) talk openly about, and yet is very common. <br /><br />Although I've never miscarried, I can imagine how difficult it is and I can completely appreciate the temptation to feel somehow responsible. Best wishes over the next few weeks and months.Laynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14063892865743850266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-36218351472513377832010-07-29T04:06:03.564+02:002010-07-29T04:06:03.564+02:00Sorry for your loss. Like many women I have had my...Sorry for your loss. Like many women I have had my experience with miscarriage (albeit 24 or so years ago). <br /><br />It is hard to go through, but being able to talk about the experience helps. Thanks for being willing to share.wildknitshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07512372230592596889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-65877681446126616772010-07-29T03:21:55.069+02:002010-07-29T03:21:55.069+02:00I am so very sorry for you loss :( I have had a M...I am so very sorry for you loss :( I have had a MC and it was hard. Take good care and be kind to yourself. Cherish what you have, grieve for your loss, and be hopeful for the future.<br />So glad you have SR to support you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15169460908351248051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-91401232415184994722010-07-28T22:48:26.901+02:002010-07-28T22:48:26.901+02:00I am so sorry about your miscarriage! Take care of...I am so sorry about your miscarriage! Take care of yourself and I am glad you are not beating yourself up about it. I have never had a miscarriage, but after having a healthy child, I can imagine how it would feel to lose a wanted baby.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06788427454417876392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-54222571981242777962010-07-28T20:43:30.415+02:002010-07-28T20:43:30.415+02:00I am so sorry to hear this news. Having gone throu...I am so sorry to hear this news. Having gone through this experience twice myself, I can relate. Despite miscarriage being common, it doesn't make it any more shocking or devastating when you are the one going through it. It can be a long road - do what you need to do in order to take care of yourself and your family right now, that is the only thing that really matters. <br />- Shannon in KSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-20190669834050641702010-07-28T20:34:46.129+02:002010-07-28T20:34:46.129+02:00Oh, Tracy. We heart aches for you. You are in my p...Oh, Tracy. We heart aches for you. You are in my prayers.<br /><br />I am so glad that you are not blaming yourself, as you absolutely had nothing to do with this. Please don't ever go down that road. <br /><br />I hope that you and SR are able to grow in intimacy through this difficult time. Hang onto one another – you're one another's best source of comfort.Jrahnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04252227876215534966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-63448355071859020292010-07-28T19:03:13.241+02:002010-07-28T19:03:13.241+02:00So sorry to hear about this! Thinking about you a...So sorry to hear about this! Thinking about you and your family as you process and grieve your loss. Thanks for being willing to share with those of us following your blog. I am so glad that you were able to find out that your run was not the cause and not something for feel guilty for.A fellow Travelerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07463099058966610293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-60528464073343166092010-07-28T18:58:26.847+02:002010-07-28T18:58:26.847+02:00So sad for you. Thinking of you both, hope we can ...So sad for you. Thinking of you both, hope we can still meet tomorrow if you are feeling up to it.<br /><br />HHelenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06015544399068863167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-34478299389815164442010-07-28T18:58:18.425+02:002010-07-28T18:58:18.425+02:00I am so sorry for your loss. I had two miscarriage...I am so sorry for your loss. I had two miscarriages (I think 3, actually, but one I am not sure about). I now have a toddler and one on the way. It's so, so emotional to go through this. I'm glad you wrote about it. Like you, I thought it was important to share that it happened, and so many women came out of the woodwork to share their experiences. It made me feel so much less alone to know others who had been through it. I'm also a long-distance runner, and I know how easy it is to blame yourself. But don't. What I relied on is knowing there is almost nothing you can do to prevent/cause a miscarriage. It's totally out of your control. <br /><br />Hang in there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-35501041035978819732010-07-28T18:38:03.172+02:002010-07-28T18:38:03.172+02:00I'm so sorry for your loss, but am thankful th...I'm so sorry for your loss, but am thankful that you are finding peace and are able to move on. That's what's important. Take care.Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16239398378627471218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-66619904382179061852010-07-28T18:36:47.163+02:002010-07-28T18:36:47.163+02:00SeaLegs,
My thoughts are with you and your hubby....SeaLegs,<br /><br />My thoughts are with you and your hubby. This is so sad. It's life, but that doesn't make it any easier.<br /><br />I'm also glad you took the time to investigate your situation, so that you could find the accurate, correct answer and not live on blaming yourself.<br /><br />Hugs!<br />MeghanMeghanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12994831420729922386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-55456976852706160062010-07-28T18:32:54.044+02:002010-07-28T18:32:54.044+02:00I am so, so sorry about your loss. I went through ...I am so, so sorry about your loss. I went through something similar- I lost a twin at 8 weeks or so, didn't find out until 10 weeks. I wracked my brain trying to think about what was happening the week the twin died, but honestly, nothing was "off" at all that week. It is so much better to find out after the actual demise, I'm glad you got to have that happen, at least. Take care and hugs to you.Julianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-43285446634599395122010-07-28T17:24:59.992+02:002010-07-28T17:24:59.992+02:00I am so sorry for your loss... there's not muc...I am so sorry for your loss... there's not much more that can be said.<br /><br />When you announced the pregnancy, I was thinking you were being a little hasty (completely understandable! It's big news!); usually couples wait for 3 or 4 months just because things like this happen so often. Of course, those same people tend to not mention miscarriages - you're just bringing into the open something that people never used to be open about.<br /><br />We've been sharing in the joy, we will share in the sorrow. And we will still be here when joy returns. And it will return, at its own pace.SteveQhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16943650844671498074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-834846832861622672.post-87762994197987335312010-07-28T16:05:26.631+02:002010-07-28T16:05:26.631+02:00My prayers are with you... I know the pain , guilt...My prayers are with you... I know the pain , guilt adn sadness you are experiencing. reading this post was like reliving my own miscarriage to a T. It happens a LOT and its never easy to get over, but one day you will really look back and see all you learned from it. Its never the running and its never your fault when these things happen. You spend some time with SR and comfort each other because thats all that really matters. Hugs to you from Indiana.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com